Merry Christmas 2008!!


Christmas is here!!

And we certainly need no persuasion to convince ourselves to have fun at this time of the year.

Event planned for the night: Clubbing
Destination : BarCelona, Sunway
Time : 10.30 pm
The gang: Us + Eng Wee + His gf + Chang Ann + Tapir + Yee Fong + Tit Kuan (minus his gf) + Kar Kean.

Because everyone were working on that day, it was pretty difficult to co-ordinate the timing to suit each and everyone of us.

We were supposed to depart from Klang by 10.15pm but because of the last minute planning, we were late by almost an hour.

Consequently, we reached BarCelona at 12.08 a.m. - Right after the countdown! Damn...

Vian in her party dress...

The club was certainly filled to the brim.

There was barely enough space to breathe, let alone walk in the club.

Our First doses of the night - no idea what they're called...

The atmosphere was pretty upbeat, but not too comfortable due to the large crowd of lala-zais and lala-muis in there.

But that doesn't stop us from having fun on our own. Because before long, our friends started to behave inexplicably.

Such as hitting people with Heineken bottle.

Or drinking a bottle of whisky as if it was a bottle of Coca-Cola...

Our good friend, Ejust Aerost Tan Haepuccau. Pardon the weird name. He is a mix of 100 different races. Hahahaha...

Vian and I were wandering to and fro from our table to the dancefloor several times. It was a challenging 'journey', to say the least.

It was very crampy and we even had breathing difficulty, plus the musky smell of sweat from the patrons there - it was just sick!

Alkohol boleh memudaratkan kesihatan - No One Care!

Looks like ChangAnn is more interested in YeeFong rather than the chick beside him...LOL

But nevertheless, we had a pretty fun time there although we might think twice now about going clubbing during festive season.

We finally made it back home at 5 o'clock in the morning. Tired + exhausted + happy!

Vian made me a box of handmade chocolates.

I was genuinely surprised because I did not prepare any gift for her this year.

I thought previously we agreed to treat each other at Shogun, but looks like she has a penchant for surprises and I was caught off-guard this time around!

The 14 handmade love-shape chocolates..They certainly taste good!

Merry Christmas everyone....ho ho ho~~!!

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izzi Pizza GONE CRAZY!!!!
discount up to 75%!

Izzi is part of an Indonesian chain.
They opened up the brand's first restaurant in Jalan Bukit Bintang
another branch in Damansara Uptown.

Time to have dinner.....We are so hungry!
yet we are facing 'financial problem' so we need a better solution!

We went to izzi pizza, Uptown damansara with his sister Sharon!
izzi pizza is having an amazing promotion......
75% off on certain food including pizzas, pasta and more.
65% off for Citibank credit card holders!

Spaghetti Cabonara

Linguine with lamb sausages

The pizza
(i cant remember the name!)

We also ordered a fried kuey teow but I think is not that extraordinary
so I didnt snap a photo of it.

Big Eaters!

Vi, Ryan, Sharon

In the end, we asked for the bill....
It costs us around RM 52 for what could have been RM150!
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Bully: Jealousy or Inferiority Complex?


This is certainly one of the more generalized entries I've ever posted in this blog. This question has been lingering in my mind for quite some time now and up to this day, I still couldn't figure out exactly what's in the mind of a bully.

To start it off, I think I would like to separate bullies into two categories, namely the 'braggarts' and the 'tormentors'. Throughout my life, I've witnessed few cases of bullying or taunting, usually the stronger against the weaker. Please bear in mind that this is a personal write-up based on my own opinions, thus it might not be totally correct. You are welcome to criticize if you would like to do so.

1st type: The Braggarts.

Braggarts usually will boast and brag about their 'extraordinary' and 'out-of-this-world' achievements to their peers or anyone who care to listen to their usually long lists of imposing and unbelievable feats. The more you listen to this kind of people, the more satisfaction they derived from their own stories. What they don't realize is that sometimes their stories can become so unbelievable that they're actually making a mockery of themselves rather than elevate themselves in the eyes of the listeners.

2nd type: The Tormentors.

Tormentors are the ones who constantly enjoy picking on other people so that they can have a good laugh at the expense of the victims of their insults or demeaning jokes. The tormentors usually targeted weaker victims who are deemed to be less defensive and are less likely to retaliate. They are doing this either to have some cheap fun or to stroke their egos by making themselves feeling superior than the victims.

Both types of bullies described above can be easily found anywhere. They can be your peers, your usual circle of friends, your seniors or even your colleagues. The one I am most familiar with are the usual circle of friends. I think the closer a bunch of friends get together, the more obvious the divide of 'bullies' and the 'victims' will surface.

As much as I would like to think that bullies utter distasteful remarks about others just so they can have a good laugh themselves, the other part of me is enticing me to think the other way round.

For me, there is a dark side of every bullies. Deep underneath the superior surface that they are trying to portray, there lies a deep sense of inferiority complex and jealousy towards others in their inner selves.

Inferiority complex happened when you feel that you are weaker or more inferior compared to other people around you. This sense of inadequacy will then manifest itself in the form of bullying, so that you can appear stronger and bigger against the victims.

I think people bully because they're so insecure about themselves or they're jealous at someone, thus they 'compensate' the inferiority by taunting or making a joke about the other person to make themselves feel more superior, while at the same time trying to demoralize and to demean the other party.

I know this entry reads like an academic writing, however this question has been hovering above me for so long that I am trying to understand the reasons why people would like to taunt or to make disparaging remarks against the others. Can't they just cut down on those childish acts and try to prove themselves by actually performing better than their targeted victims?

I leave it for you guys to think about it and to enlighten me on your views.

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Tagged by Caleb!


1. What's your ambition?
Ambition?used to have 1 when I was a child....Fashion Designer!

2. Which is more important to you? : Friends/Boyfriend/Girlfriends?
Friends and Bf.....They play different important roles in my life!

3. How often do you think of committing suicide?

4. Do you think you have enough confidence?
Oh yeah!!!!!

5. How many babies do you want?
If I get the chance to be a mummy.......2 babies!

6. What is your goal for this year?
Get a red Sony VAIO laptop!

7. Do you believe in eternal love?
Yea......I have found my eternal love!

8. Do you want to change your real name?
Of course NO.....Vi Vian is always the best name!!haha

9. What feeling do you love the most?
The feeling of being loved and pampered!

10. What are your bad habits?
Lazy...! Lazy... and Lazy to think of my bad habits!

11. Is there anything you want to tell people who hate you?
"I dont hate you!"hahaha...

12. Do you cherish every friendship you have?
Yes! Yes! Yes!

13. What does flying mean to you?
The freedom to go anywhere!

14. Who do you love?
People that love me....

15. Who do you hate?

16. Describe the person who tagged you in nine words.
A nice teacher, cheerful, being loved by his students!

17. What would you really like to do now?
Go to the beach....!

18. What will you be in the next ten years?
A wife.....hahahaha

19. Coffee or Tea?

20. What are you wishing for right now?
A beach vacation!

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